I have always been a fan of practice what you preach. I think that for anyone in the health
industry, it is important for them to be
actively on their own journey to health and wellness, to be able to be
credible, understand where their clients are coming from, have empathy for what
their clients may be facing on their journeys and to be a positive role
model. Every person’s journey is different, but we
all face a lot of the same or similar
struggles in getting there.
As I have gotten older and hopefully more wiser, I have come to strongly
believe that our lives are a constant journey, never ending until we die and
until we reach that point, we should embrace the journey (both the ups and
downs). And we should never stop trying
to learn, better ourselves or grow in
some way. If we do that, we are really
not living life to the fullest. So I
think that I still need to work on all of these as an ongoing project.
I really do not regularly do a formal assessment, although I probably
should, but internally, I am always taking notes on my wellbeing and am pretty
in tune with myself and am aware of when I am in distress or need, whether it
be physically, spiritually of emotionally, the biggest problem is whether or
not I listen to what my mind and body are telling me. As the numbers are ever changing, right now, I would give myself a 7-8 out of 10
in all categories. Physically, I am
working out at least 3-4 days a week, usually more as long as time
permits. I will say, that I miss my yoga
as I am not doing it as much recently since I have switched to a more strength
based workout in an effort to gain more muscle and increase my metabolism to lose these 20 pounds that I am tired of
carrying around. But I will get back to it more regularly as I
make progress in my weight loss. As I am reflecting, maybe I should have rated
myself a little higher on the emotional aspect.
That is not to say I do not have my moments, but there is a certain
situation that has taken a huge emotional toll on me for the last 5 years, and even
though I still offer encouragement and support, I have actually been able to
take a major step away from the situation and while I am not happy with this
persons choices, I know that they are
not my choices to make and have no reflection on me personally, so I think I
have grown emotionally to be able to do that.
Spiritually, I think that both the physical and emotional come
together to allow me to have peace within myself . I am not convinced that there is a “God” and
believe that the spiritual is an essence inside all of us to discover, our own
personal energy. That is my “truth”, but
I do not have a problem with others that need to have a higher power outside of
themselves to believe in to help them achieve that ……I respect others beliefs
….it is all about what works for you.
My goals physically are to continue to work out regularly, at least 4-5
days a week minimum to reduce stress, build strength and lose these 20
pounds. Emotionally/Psychologically, I
want to work on reducing my inner chatter and increasing my inner calm. I tend to have an over active mind,
constantly thinking about and overanalyzing everything. My goal is to be able to look at a situation,
decide if there is anything about it that is actually in my control and if not,
let it go. Spiritually, my goal is to
continue to build both peace and strength inside my self through mediation and
to be the best person that I can by embracing loving kindness towards
others. By working on all of these
goal, I am also striving to be the best
role model that I can be for my kids, giving them these tools at a young age,
giving them a head start on total wellness.
Physically, I will use yoga to
build strength, flexibility and inner peace. While I only do it every other week or so now,
I will get back to this something I do 3 times a week very soon. Also high intensity strength training to
build lean muscle while also getting in a cardiovascular effect on three days
each week, and also cardio(elliptical) once or twice a week, to change things
up and also be able to not really have to think much, just burn off stress. Emotionally , I will use meditation every
night before bed to learn how to find my inner calm, happy place with no
distractions. The more I practice this,
the easier it gets to go there when I need a break away from the chatter and
stress around me. I will also use
Loving Kindness techniques daily, every chance
I get, not only towards myself, but others, because by enhancing others
daily lives/interactions, I am helping those around me even if it is a very
small part of their day. Spiritually, I
go back to the yoga(eventually 3 times a week) and meditation(daily), these
practices both help me to get in touch with my inner strength, calm and
peace. They are both practices that have multiple purposes and
benefit me immensely. With both, the
breathing helps to center and calm yourself, allowing you to not focus on other
distractions, just want is happening right here and now.
I will assess my progress probably monthly to see if there are any areas
that need to be changed up and to make sure that I am meeting my needs. As I have mentioned, I am doing more strength
training now to build up muscle so that I can lose some weight. Once I am at or close to my weight goal, I
will not abandon the weight training, but will not make it my focus and will go
back to doing more yoga as it is something that I enjoy more. I also think that
by involving those around me in these practices as much as possible will help
to keep them as a major interest and it is always a lot more fun to do things
with the ones you love. Having integral health is an ongoing practice
that will always need to be revisited, to make sure the things you are doing
are still the things that you need now as our needs are ever changing. By making
these practices a priority and scheduling them into my day instead of making
them an option if I have time, it will make it harder to make excuses to not
find time for them or saying that I am too busy. Eventually , they will become second nature
to my daily routine, just like brushing your teeth or showering.